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10 Ways To Make Foreplay Fun For The Both Of You
Male and female orgasms differ. This is universally accepted and has led to the idea that only women want or need foreplay. This is not true. Generally speaking, sex is easier for men. Their orgasms are quicker and are relatively easy to achieve. But, they enjoy a bit of foreplay too. Sex is an activity for both of you, and foreplay should be too. Another major perk of participating in foreplay, as a woman, is that it feels oh so good seeing how turned on he is. Foreplay is not a chore, it is a delicious and tantalizing journey of exploration. So, come one come all and look at these…
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Debunking the Myth of the Sex-Starved Father
Dads can’t get laid. It’s a trope. It’s a meme. It’s Christina Applegate and Will Arnett in Up All Night sneaking off to a hotel just to sleep. It’s Rob Huebel telling Josh Duhamel in Life As We Know It that even gay dads have to kiss their sex lives goodbye. It’s comedian Rob Delaney calling sexual rainchecks “abusive.” Though there are certain scientific phenomena that lend the cliche credence–perhaps the same low testosterone that makes new fathers less likely to cheat drives them to dress in contraceptively bad outfits–it’s mostly just a stereotype. Dads mount nothing but shelves. Everyone gets it and many fathers internalize it even though there’s…
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6 Quiet Sex Positions That Won’t Wake The Kids
Everyone has their own ideas as to what makes you a star in the sack. If we were to follow what we see on screen, it would seem the louder, the better. But not everyone has a flair for the dramatic. Or maybe more to the point, not everyone has the luxury of being loud, least of all those who have kids sleeping down the hall or entertained by a movie. The good news is that keeping things quiet doesn’t mean you have to ditch the heat. In fact, leaving the theatrics behind might even enhance the experience. “Studies show, at the core, the best sex is about the connection…
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How to Seduce Your Wife & Have Her Initiate Sex More
Disclaimer – This isn’t the Disney school of romance, this is what she really wants and will get her hot… I’m just letting you know so you can be prepared because you probably haven’t heard this stuff before and it may not be what you think your going to hear Before the practical tips you can use tonight, I just want to tell you something to get you in the right shape of mind Ready, because it is going to change the way you think about sex…? As a man, part of the enjoyment we feel falls under relief, another part falls under watching the woman we are with be…
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How Flirting with a Stranger Improved me and my Marriage
I suppose it takes a crazy, slightly delusional sort of courage for a man to ask a married woman to go out for a drink. Or maybe it’s just ignorance? I can’t seem to recall a single event in my past where a man asked me out for a drink… but apparently, I finally had my lucky day. My husband had been helping me tweak Facebook Ads for my business over a coffee at our local Starbucks. He left around noon to go see his bodywork clients and shortly after the coffee shop got increasingly busy with lunchtime traffic. I was still sitting at the four-top table and noticed a…
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Top 4 Ways Exercise Can Help You Have Better Sex Life
Weight gain seems to be a trend within marriages and long-term relationships. It even led to the appearance of the term “dad bod,” which is short for “dad body” or a body of a man with a beer belly. We all know that exercise benefits us greatly, but how could it affect your relationship? There are many ways that regular exercise could affect your relationship, but the most prominent change will be found in your sex life. Your sex life is a large part of your relationship and is greatly influenced by your fitness and health. Blood flow Cardiovascular exercise greatly increases circulation and nitric oxide in your bloodstream,…
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48 Simple Ways to Improve Your Sex Life
Understand sex Sex is important—you’d be surprised at all the unexpected health benefits regular sex offers. “Investigate and learn how sex is fundamental for our physical and mental health and serves much more than reproductive and gratification functions,” suggests William Kolbe, EdD, author of The Rejuvenating Power of Masturbation. “One way to do this is by exploring both solo and paired sexual activity to stimulate your major endocrine axis and nervous system, which manage all your major body functions.” The sex hormones are involved in maintaining muscle and bone mass, male and female characteristics, sex drive, as well as certain cognitive functions and memory, he adds. Understanding how your body…
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Sex Is Not The Same As Making Love
You have just finished a pleasurable sweaty encounter, and some doubts begin to creep in. Was this about sex or were you actually making love. How do you tell the difference? Is there any noticeable difference that you can tell straight away without having to sit down and think about it? Sex is straightforward and physical and can also be very pleasurable. Good sex that produces deep rocking orgasms also produces love hormones so sometimes it feels like making love, and this is where it gets confusing. Is it love? The act of orgasm produces oxytocin which is also known as the love hormone, and this will give you…
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12 Things Sex Therapists Wish You Knew
You won’t need to do the deed in front of your therapist—or with your therapist You may have heard rumors that you’ll have to show, rather than tell, your problem in sex therapy. And if you’ve watched the series Masters of Sex, that’s definitely what happened there—along with sex surrogate therapy, in which the researchers or their staff engaged in sexual contact to help patients. But sex therapists say that they won’t be watching—or participating—in your sexual activities: They’ll just be helping you recover that loving feeling. “Professional therapy never includes sex, touching, or removal of clothing,” says Shannon Chavez, PsyD, CST, a licensed clinical psychologist and AASECT certified sex…
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3 Effective Ways to Handle Mismatched Sex Drives Without Fighting
Sex is one of the most important aspects of a marriage, and one of the most challenging at times. We are all individuals with different sexual wants in terms of frequency, position, intensity, and even time of day. There are so many different things that contribute to our sexual desire that the odds are actually against two people with perfectly matching sex drives finding one another. The truth is, most couples have to do some work to find a balance that satisfies them both sexually. If you’re struggling to find a way to make different sexual appetites work, we have a few tips for finding a way to keep you…
