Advice
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I Did The Most Selfless Thing: I Left My Family
I, a mom of three small children, left my husband and kids. Tonight I am not there to put my boys to bed. They are being put to bed by their dad, while I sit alone in my apartment down the street. I can picture the scene right now in my home: The twins are doing their best to convince their dad to let them watch just 10 more minutes of TV, while the 4-year-old makes a million excuses as to why he has gotten back out of bed. Their dad is undoubtedly patiently navigating through the toughest hour of his day, as he calmly yet decisively repeats the same…
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Four Things You Are Doing That Could Tempt Him to Cheat
A big worry among married couples is infidelity. It is one of the things that could break a thriving marriage. Infidelity generates one of the most painful betrayals. It hurts beyond words. In most cases women forgive their adulterous husbands; it’s hardly the opposite. While husbands who cheat on their wives have individual reasons to do it, none is enough to justify the habit. If you are facing infidelity, or are suspecting it, don’t blame yourself fully. It takes two to tango and since you are in a marriage together, both of you are responsible for fixing your marital issues. You cannot fix these things on your own, his or…
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Disadvantages of Staying Together for the Children
Has your relationship gone sour? Are your kids the only reason you haven’t left? There are many people who can answer yes to both questions. They are only in it for their kids’ well-being. Even if they know divorce or separation is the best way out, they still can’t break up because of worrying about their children. To be honest, kids are just victims of marital circumstances. They are not to blame for wrong things like infidelity, debt, and other conflicts parents have. They deserve to live in peace and happily. Choosing to stay for the sake of your children is compassionate, yes, but it is a horrible decision. A…
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Deception is the Main Cause of Trust Problems in Marriage
Trust is the foundation of your marriage. It is one of those things that take very little energy to break. Trust is extremely critical as it maintains the bond in any form of a relationship. We learn that we can trust our spouse if they can keep their promises to us. As well, humans develop trust only if the words spoken are meant. So, do you mean what you say to your marriage partner? Are you a trustworthy spouse? If you are deceptive, keep in mind that your weakness could destroy trust in your marriage. How trust issues develop Your partner can test your honesty in a very simple manner.…
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Why Boredom is Bad for Your Marriage and How to Get Rid of It
Marriage bliss is real and most couples experience it at the beginning of their life as a couple. The start is usually full of exciting honeymoon trips, compliments, and lots of love from others. Unfortunately, the thrill doesn’t last. It fades as years go by as boredom kicks in. Some couple’s moment of boredom arrives after they have spent a lot of time together and there is a little left to learn about each other. Inevitably, marriage bliss and excitement diminishes over time. When it is all gone, a husband and wife stop doing all the activities they previously enjoyed. They stop doing dinner dates and going to the movies.…
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Having The Second Wedding
Although a second wedding will be important, it is often not the big occasion the first one was. You will be older and more concerned about what you want rather than trying to impress. You may have to cut back on what you had last time, but it can still be a great wedding day. Do Have the reception you want – it can be fun or fancy – it is still your day. If you can afford it, have it all your way. Wear white if you want to. You may not want the big frilly dress but a nice white suit or summer dress will look great. If…
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5 Easy Ways To Improve The Relationship With Your Spouse
Love is known by all but not understood by many. It is very important to understand that “love” has its own ways, its own pace. Be ready to go through highs and lows, but always remember to hold onto the good moments. This article contains five ways in which you can improve the relationship with your spouse. Don’t be afraid to communicate Fear can destroy the very essence of love. Therefore, don’t be afraid to tell your partner the truth about how you feel and how you see things. It would be better for your partner to hear what you have to say from you rather than from your…
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Marriage Tips: Wedding Arranging Like a Professional
Unless you decide to get married at very short notice, it will be a good idea to make plans well on advance, even more than a year before the big day. A Year Before At this stage, you should decide what you want and buy the magazines that will show you what is available. You also need to work out what it is going to cost. It is easy to get carried away, so either cut your cloth to fit the budget, or find a way to make more money. It will also be an idea to pick who is going to play a big part on the day. Who…
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Keep Away From These Three Things to Strengthen Your Marriage
To keep your marriage relationship strong and healthy, you have to continually seek knowledge and tips. If you are a Christian, you may choose to attend seminars and dinners meant for married couples. From time to time, you can talk to older couples that you greatly admire. They have tons of advice they can offer you for free. If things enter a rough patch, you can seek marriage education or marriage counseling. Solutions for married couples who want to strengthen their relationships are within reach. Even if you want to revive your marriage issues anonymously, you can seek answers online. In short, there are many ways to prevent an impending…
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Tips About Getting in Touch with Emotions for Married Men
You have probably heard from your wife, relationship experts, psychologists and multiple TV shows that “it is healthy to talk about your feelings.” The problem here is that to talk about your feelings effectively, you first need to know what they are. Then, you need to believe that your feelings are actually a good indicator of what is happening. Often, people confuse their feelings with their emotions and assume that if they just get their emotions out in the open, things somehow will get better. You have probably tried it and know from your experience that they won’t. One of the reasons for it is that just letting your emotions…
