Infidelity
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What to Do When Your Partner Cheats
A 12-step guide to surviving infidelity. ___ When tears come down Like falling rain You’ll toss around And call my name You’ll walk the floor The way I do Your cheatin’ heart will tell on you… Your Cheatin’ Heart—Hank Williams ___ So you’ve caught your partner cheating, or he or she has come forward and confessed. Now what? Is the relationship over? Infidelity can kill a relationship or serve as a wake-up call. The answer to this question depends on whether you want it to be over or not. For some, infidelity—sexual or emotional—is a deal-breaker. Trust is shattered, healing is impossible, and walking away is the only choice. For others, it’s…
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How Flirting with a Stranger Improved me and my Marriage
I suppose it takes a crazy, slightly delusional sort of courage for a man to ask a married woman to go out for a drink. Or maybe it’s just ignorance? I can’t seem to recall a single event in my past where a man asked me out for a drink… but apparently, I finally had my lucky day. My husband had been helping me tweak Facebook Ads for my business over a coffee at our local Starbucks. He left around noon to go see his bodywork clients and shortly after the coffee shop got increasingly busy with lunchtime traffic. I was still sitting at the four-top table and noticed a…
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7 Signs Your Spouse Might Be Having An Emotional Affair
Unlike physical affairs, it’s harder to pinpoint an emotional affair. And if you’re the suspicious partner, the last thing you want to do is accuse your spouse of something if it really is a “just friends” situation. How do you differentiate between a platonic, innocent-enough friendship or a more troubling emotional affair? Below, therapists from around the country share seven signs your partner may be on the verge of emotional infidelity ― and how to talk to him or her about it. Your S.O. may be having an emotional affair if… 1. There’s something off in their physical and online encounters with the other person. The clearest sign of emotional infidelity is having a sense…
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10 Ways You Are Being Unfaithful To Your Spouse — And You Don’t Even Know It
Having an affair is not even on your radar. Never gonna happen. You love your spouse and you’d never be unfaithful to her or him. However, you may be unaware of other ways you are being unfaithful. If these actions continue, you may find yourself on the slippery slope that leads to that never-intended affair and a sorrow you never wanted in your life. Unfaithfulness usually creeps in through the back door, disguising itself as harmless fun or innocent behavior. If you want your marriage to endure and be filled with happiness you may need to check this list to see if you have fallen prey to any of these…
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The New Face of Infidelity (Pornography)
Infidelity used to be about having sex with someone other than your marriage partner. In the 21st century, those clear lines seem to have blurred. If you have a flirtation online and there’s no sex, should it really be considered as cheating? The advent of the internet has changed the face of infidelity, including the type of people involved and the actions that are considered to be unfaithful. Marriages are more vulnerable than ever in these tough economic times when both partners may work hard to make ends meet, leaving less time to nurture the relationship. In movies, affairs tend to be glamorized, and the internet is a whole new…
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Millennials cheat on their partners for two main reasons, according to a new study
People often try and make their excuses for infidelity, but according to a study, there are two main reasons millennials cheat on their partners.It all comes down to either thinking your partner isn’t satisfying your needs, or feeling the need for more independence.In the study, carried out by the University of Tennessee and published in the Journal of Sex Research, 104 young adults with an average age of 22 (59.6 per cent of whom were female) who’d admitted to cheating on their partner in the past six months were surveyed about why.The first and greatest reason was interdependence.This is when you feel like your intimacy needs aren’t being met by your…
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A new survey says men and women cheat for totally different reasons
The INSIDER Summary: A company surveyed men and women to find out the differences in how and why they cheat. Men tend to cheat for physical reasons and women tend to cheat for more emotional ones, according to the survey. The same survey suggests women are more likely to emotionally cheat. Men surveyed are slightly more likely to engage in physical acts and not consider it cheating. Everyone has different reasons to cheat — maybe they were drunk and stupid, have been feeling unfulfilled in the relationship, or maybe they just couldn’t help hitting up that hot person on Instagram. But a new survey suggests the reasons behind why people…
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The 6 Most Common Places Where Affairs Start
By Stephanie Bucklin According to the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, national surveys have shown that 15 percent of women and 25 percent of men have had a full-blown affair outside of their long-term relationship — a number that jumps by 20 percent for each sex when expanded to include emotional affairs. When you think of a cheating partner, you may picture a bar or a nightclub. But that’s actually not one of the top places people meet their affair partners, Debra Macleod, a marriage expert and author of books including “Couples in Crisis: Overcoming Affairs & Opposite-Sex Friendships,” told Fox News. Macleod interviewed more than 300 couples…
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Cheating Husband Texts Married Woman, And Her Response is EPIC
Real love does exist, and this woman proved it. She received a private message from a guy she had some political banter on Facebook with, and it was clear what his intentions were. At first, she mentioned her husband and politely refused but the guy persisted so she went into full savage mode. The woman’s message achieved two things: it proved her love to a man who truly deserves it, and it also left a nasty burn on the homewrecker. She uploaded the exchange to Imgur, and the internet instantly fell in love with her: “Power moves only. Well played,” said one commenter. “Brutal. Love it,” said another. Scroll down to…
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When You SHOULD and SHOULDN’T Stay With A Cheater
By Ashley Papa Trust is one of the main tenets of a strong partnership. When cheating happens, that value is shattered — and for many couples, saving a marriage can seem difficult, if not impossible. But according a March 2014 study published in the journal Couple and Family Psychology: Research and Practice, many married couples who face infidelity do bounce back and make the active choice to stay together. And it’s not just for financial reasons or parental responsibilities. Infidelity does not have to be the end of the relationship, Dr. Tammy Nelson, a couples therapist and author of “The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity,” told Fox News.…