7 Enhancing Lovemaking Conversations for Couples
I want you to experience what it’s like to use sex and intimacy as a gateway to personal growth and your ever-evolving erotic nature. This is not an easy task, but the seven conversations below help guide you at the beginning of your sexual quest with your partner.
Instructions: Some of these questions may make you or your partner uncomfortable. If so, you can ease into the conversation with some easier questions that cause the least anxiety.
When you do feel ashamed, get curious as to why. Bring it up with your partner and tell them that it makes you uncomfortable. You can even wait until you are by yourself and then explore it by using the Four Why Exercise.
Remember that your partner is opening up their deep dark book of eroticism. This is extremely difficult and requires immense vulnerability. Avoid judging your partner at all costs. Express understanding and allow them to trust you enough to open up about their desires and needs.
Passionate Lovemaking for Couples: Intimacy & Emotions
- Some couples say that quality sex is dependent on a feeling of connectedness. Is that true for you? What do you need from me to feel that way?
- Some people need sex to feel close, while others only desire sex when they already feel close. Which one are you? Do you think we differ? Does that cause a problem? If so, how can we change?
- Sometimes partners don’t remember what the other finds arousing and erotic. Are there ways of touching you or activities that I’ve forgotten? Can you give me a refresher course?
- What makes sex more romantic and passionate for you?
- Would you like our sex to feel more like making love or more like fucking? How could we do that?
- What are some of the best, most romantic times we’ve had? What can we do to make more times like that?
- Do you feel I still seduce you? If not, when did that stop between us? Is that something we should work on?
Dedicated to improving intimacy in your relationship,
Kyle Benson
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