12 Ways to Get the Spark Back in Your Marriage

5. Play your song

It could be the song you danced to on your wedding day or a song that always reminded you of each other.

6. Look at old photos

I love stumbling upon old photos of my husband and me. It is a reminder of how much we have grown over the years. The best part is we’ve grown together. Looking at photos of the happy times might remind you that all relationships go through their ups and downs. The key is to get through them. Looking at old photos might motivate you to put in the work to get back to those times again.

7. Go on a fancy date

Go someplace that requires you to get fancy. Put on your heels and wear something that makes you feel sexy! Make an effort to go on regular date nights if possible.

8. Plan a weekend adventure

If you can, take the children to grandma’s house and plan a romantic weekend just the two of you. Use your time together to reconnect without any distractions.

9. Say it with words

Write a love letter or send a sexy text message.

10. Try something different

I’m not saying change who you are but be open to trying something new. Wear a bright bold color, wear a flowy summer dress that reveals just enough of your sun kissed skin to get his attention, change your hairstyle or try a bold lipstick color.

11. Make love

Have more sex (aka make love)! But be spontaneous, have it during the day instead of at night or if you two are home alone take it out of the bedroom.

12. Talk and listen

Show interest in your spouse’s day. Greet them with a hug or kiss when they come home and ask them how their day was.  In general take the time to check in with them and see what’s on their mind and to let them know that you are here for them.

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