Top 10 Things Your Wife Is Afraid To Ask You For (But Absolutely Wants)

A rational response to anger

Anger is one of the easiest emotions for men to express, being one of the few that it is often acceptable for them to express. Because of this, it can be easy to jump into hot anger as a defense when difficult conversations emerge, making it more likely that you will have a fight, or that conversation will be shut down.

Being able to feel anger, but continue to respond in a rational way, and work with your partner is one of the best ways to show your wife you love her. Giving in to anger is one of the ways we self-sabotage our relationships, and your wife shouldn’t really have to ask you to not be a hothead.

Genuine Appreciation

It is easy to criticize, and easy to give in to the pattern of not expressing the gratitude you feel for your partner. As your lives become one, the life of your marriage and your family, it can be easy to forget just how much your partner does to love and support you.

We all want to be appreciated, so be sure to take the time to genuinely thank your wife for what she does for you. Be sure to tell her just what your support means to you, and what she does that makes you feel special. Knowing that you appreciate her makes all her efforts worth it and makes it more likely that you’ll both be supportive and giving to one another whenever the opportunity arises.

Mutual Respect

Mutual respect is obviously key in a relationship, but complete respect for your partner involves more than what be obvious. Most good husbands speak kindly to their partners, respect their wishes about the household, and listen to what they have to say. But true, enduring respect involves respecting her wishes and privacy even if you don’t agree with her, trusting her to make good decisions, and valuing her life, company, and achievements every day. It is also important that you have respect for your partner in every conversation you have, particularly when you are frustrated, or speaking to others. This is the way we would all like to be treated in a relationship, but it can take an effort to put complete respect into practice each day.

Public displays of affection

We all have different interest and tolerance for public displays of affection, and you’ll need to determine exactly what your partner wants from you in terms of public love. But it is important that you claim you partner and show them support publicly, in whatever way is appropriate to both of your personalities.

This can mean showing up to work events, being sure to introduce her proudly to your colleagues, and including her in your social life. Whether you are a physical person or not, hand holding, hugs, and a kiss on the head can go a long way with your lady. Unprompted, these gestures mean the world.

To be a partner and rock in the storm

Nothing helps us endure the tough things in life more than having a rock to stand by our side. When things get tough, your wife wants you to be there for her in every way, offering steady support and a calming presence, just as you need in times of crisis. If your wife is sick, take care of the house and food and make sure she gets some rest; if she is having a family crisis, be there in every way, and help find ways to lighten her load; if she is having a hard time with work or friends, be there and listen.

In a healthy relationship, giving is receiving. Everything you do for your partner strengthens your partnership and your support for one another. Keep these ideas in mind for ways you can enhance your marriage, and you’ll enjoy the increasing, love, intimacy, and appreciation that comes along with your efforts.

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