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Advice,  Dates

5 Ways to Drive Your Wife Wild

3. While she’s doing dishes, hug her from behind, and whisper in hear ear… that there’s a glass of wine and a box of fine chocolates by the TV. “Go relax, honey; you deserve it. I got the dishes.”

Because doing her chores will make her want to do you.

Most women work hard. Working women have double shifts (outside the home/at home), and stay-at-home moms often feel unappreciated for all the hard work they put in. Doing a little thing like telling her that she deserves a little rest and relaxation with no strings attached, can show her how much you truly appreciate everything she does. This can feel very romantic. Feeling romanced leads to feeling loved, and feeling loved… (see above).

4. Write a letter describing everything you love about her personality… and mail it.

Opening the mailbox to find your words will make her want to open your robes.

Did you write letters to your wife at the beginning of your relationship? When was the last time you wrote her a letter (not an email, a real letter?)

Back in 1999, we were so excited to get email. Now, email is so prevalent, we don’t care about getting it anymore, but a snail-mail letter… that’s pretty awesome. It’s also totally unexpected.

Since you live with her, she probably wouldn’t guess you’d mail a letter. That kind of small little surprise can speak volumes to the fact that you’re thinking about her and that you’re concocting ways to put a smile on her face.

Often times, just knowing you’re thinking about her can help her think even more about you… and want to express that in a physical way.

5. Ask her to wear something nice, because you have a surprise. Then make her dinner, and sit down to it wearing a suit.

Because seeing a man in a suit sure makes a woman want to see his birthday one.

There’s just something about a man in a suit. Most women find it very sexy, which is odd since that’s about the most covered up you can usually be as a Western man.

It all comes down to adding more romance into your life.
Maybe that’s what women like about it, the slight mystery… and the fact you bothered to tie a tie to impress us? Whatever it might be, cooking her a nice dinner and having a nice “night in” costs very little, and goes a long way to show that you are thinking of her. And who knows, it might lead to a very nice dessert indeed.

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It all comes down to adding more romance into your life, and noticing the little things she does. Because when she notices you noticing her, you look hot, baby! And when you look hot… she’s hot…And when she’s hot… so is the bedroom.

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