15 Signs You Married The Best Wife EVER!
She thinks you’re sexy
We’re not all blessed with the body of Ryan Reynolds and the jawline of Brad Pitt. But that’s okay. Let’s be honest, most of our wives aren’t Hollywood starlets. But that’s not important. What’s important is that they find you to be handsome, beautiful, and most of all sexy. Whether she loves your beard or the way your eyes moisten when you’re watching a Disney movie, it doesn’t matter. Finding someone sexy rarely involves pure physical attraction after a few years. So, if you can still turn her on after a few years, she’s the one for you.
You’re able to be vulnerable around her
This one is also tied to you as a spouse. It’s not 100% one sided. You need to be able to open up to her and share with her your fears, dreams, and wishes. But if you get chided when you do this or you don’t feel properly reciprocated, then you’ll shut that down with a quickness. And you can’t have that in a relationship. So you need someone that gives you a safe place to open up. It’s critical for your psyche. So, if your wife is your shoulder to cry on or your sounding board for your struggles, then you’ve got a winner.
She treats customer service, wait staff, and other service industry people with respect
I know this sounds superficial, but it’s not. You see, these people who work in these job positions start off in a position of subservience to us. They’re there to make our lives easier. And we’ve all probably been in one of these jobs before. Thus, when you can empathize with these individuals and treat them with respect and kindness, it shows that you understand things are not always their fault, that they deserve your respect and kindness, and that you are kind to those that you don’t necessarily have to be kind to. So, if she is kind to people in these job positions, then she’s an all-star wife.
She’s fair
Has she ever insisted that you go out with your friends because she’s been out with hers the last few times? Has she offered to get up with the kids in the middle of the night because she knows you have a big day ahead of you? Then she’s fair. But this is a two way road. You have to give to receive. But if you’re giving and never receiving, that could be a sign that something is off. But also ensure that you’re not always taking and never giving back in return. That’s damaging. Find someone who understands the balance of responsibilities and hold her close.
She wants you to have your own things
Everyone has their own identity. And when we get married there is a tendency to lose your identity and develop one that’s always tied to your spouse. But then you risk losing some of the things that make you, you. So you need your own hobbies and time to yourself. Time to reconnect with the person you were for the couple of decades you were before you met her. And she needs that time as well. And when you’re both okay with each of you being together but maintaining your own enjoyment, then you’ll be better off for it.
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