An elderly man’s words about his late wife reduced a shop full of people to tears
|When someone you love passes away, many of us think about our final words and moments with that person.
One elderly gentleman proffered some words of wisdom after his wife passed away, and subsequently reduced a group of listeners to tears.
A pharmacy employee recounted an interaction with a regular customer who used to come in with his wife. James Morales described the encounter in a series of tweets, stating it was one of the “saddest” experiences of his life.
Today I had one of, if not, THE saddest experience of my life. I know most of yall wont care but, I just HAVE to share it. Heres my thread.
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
Morales said that the elderly couple would pick up their medication twice, sometimes three times a week and they were well known to all the staff. They’d been coming for years, and had grown close to the pharmacy employees, Morales wrote.
They’re regulars. The old woman was usually the one who did the transactions and initiated conversations with me, and the rest of us
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
Morales spoke about the couple, and the way the husband behaved towards his wife.
Shes always happy and always enjoyed conversations. While he stood beside her, looking at her, paying close attention to the things she say.
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
Morales said the couple were inseparable.
There was never a day where they weren’t together, and thats why today was very odd to me when I saw him walk up to the counter by himself.
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
But this day was different. When Morales asked the gentleman—who he referred to as Mr Smith—how he was doing, the man said he “could be better.” Morales told the man he had six medications ready for him, three of which were for his wife. The man stood there, and was quiet for a moment, Morales recalled.
That’s when Mr Smith explained that his wife had passed away the night before.
“..My wife..she passed yesterday night. I’m actually here to return the medications because she wasnt even able to use it.”
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
Everyone in the pharmacy stopped what they were doing and fell into complete silence.
Our pharmacy is always busy and loud. But somehow, everybody inside the pharmacy heard what he said and stopped what they were doing.
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
Mr Smith stood before Morales in tears, while the silence was held by the staff.
It was silent, the quietest it has ever been in there. Everyones stomach was in a knot, while Mr. Smith stood there in front of me in tears.
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
Then the man talked about how he felt about his wife’s death.
“Hate to say it, but I wish I went before she did. It was hard waking up today, to an empty side of the bed. She was my best friend and lover,” said Mr Smith.
Morales was, by this point, feeling very tearful. And, many of his colleagues were already crying.
At this point, I was holding back my tears so hard yall dont even know. I look behind me, and some of my coworkers were in tears already
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
Mr Smith said he would carry on living and taking his medication, as he had promised his wife he would.
“But don’t be sad. I promised her I will live, and I will take life seriously and take my medications. I’ll continue my promises with her.”
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
Mr Smith continued talking about his wife, and the entire pharmacy was now in tears.
“Shes watching over me, and is the best angel I could ever ask for.” He was in tears, and so were we.
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
But, Mr Smith had some words of advice, which rang true for every single staff member in the shop at the time.
Before leaving, he left us with an advice that I’ve heard before, but never knew the importance behind it until that moment. He said
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
“Make sure to tell the ones you love that you appreciate them,” said Mr Smith.
Make sure to tell the ones u love, that u appreciate them. You never truly know when their last breath is, and the last time youll see them.
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
Mr Smith said he regretted his last conversation with his wife.
He regrets one thing, which was their last conversation. He wished he could have said I love you. Anything other than “good night sweetie”
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
“Imagine, living with that for the rest of your life. Hoping that you said something else to the person that meant so much to you,” wrote Morales.
Mr Smith’s words had an instant impact on the people working behind the counter. The pharmacist called her husband to tell him how much she appreciates him.
I saw my pharmacist make a call, it was to her husband. She broke the news and told him that she appreciates him. I thought it was funny..
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
Then all of Morales’ colleagues began texting and calling their S.O.s to tearily tell them they loved them.
then, I realized all of my damn coworkers were texting/calling their significant others, telling them that they love em, teary-eyed and all.
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
Morales said he found himself wanting to call someone but realized he didn’t have anyone to speak to.
Make sure to tell the ones you love how much they mean to you, before you dont have the chance to anymore.
— James Morales (@isthisjames) September 12, 2017
Mashable contacted James Morales for comment and will update this story accordingly.